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I don't think he cares.
So, me and this guy from work started dating.
And hes super amazing. But, some times i dont think hes serious about any thing. hes very funny, and always makes me laugh. but when i try to be serious with him, he trys to make things a joke, and uses a lot of sarcasm, so i cant ever beleive or take him serious. Some I live about 30 minuets away from where i am socially (like i go to school, work, and ocasionally stay at my moms, but i actually LIVE 30 minuets away). And he never seems to put in much of an effort to see me. Which means some weeks we only see each other at work, in which we cant really talk, so he gets mad at me. But when we are to gether ITS AMAZING. But my god, i dont know what to do to get him to be a little more serious, ect. Why does he act like he does, what can i do? (by the way hes a year and a half older then me, and he drives, i dont)
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Wow! almost everything about what you said is happening to me. exactly except i live 15 minutes away and i dont work with him but he does make an effort to see me. I was just on the phone with him and he got pretty serious because i yelled at him like reallly yelled and he was like wow i never heard you yell at me like that.
i'm not telling you to do this all i wanted to say was thanks for posting this because it is exactly what i am going through
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Hi
i think that you should talk to him about him not being serious and if he doesnt try to make an effort hes not worth your time. If you want someone that takes you seriously and will go the extra mile to see you then i think you should give him a chance to be like that but if he doenst change then forget bout it. I was always told you cant change a person unless they want to change thmeselves so if hes willing to change then he wil but if hes not then give him the boot. Ok wel i hope everythin works out for you and if you need anymore help feel free to ask me!
~katelyn~
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