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2 boys, one big problem!
okay. so I'm going out with this guy, and I honestly don't like him all that much. I never really likd him in the first place, but he never officially asked me to be his girlfriend but he says i am and everyone else thinks so, and he somewhat did, so I consider him my boyfriend, but had no chance to say no to him because he didn't really ask. and this guy has this friend, who is also a really really really good friend of mine. and I really like this friend. and the other day he told me he liked me also, along with 3 other girls. i know 2 of those girls don't like him for sure, but the 3rd girl is in one of my classes and has told me she liked him (after i told her how i felt about him). this friend also knows my feelings about my boyfriend, and is the most trustworthy person i've ever met. I don't want to continue going out with my boyfriend AND i want to be with this other guy, but i don't know if thats right or HOW to break up with my boyfriend, since I've never broken up with anybody before. what do i do? [[ps. I know you in real life. betcha can't guess who i am! hehe]]
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the only one of my friends i know who has a boyfriend is **********************.
so HA! i know who you are.
BUT my advice is, if you dont like the kid, BREAK UP WITH HIM. DUH DUH DERRR.
but while you break up with him, include the fact that he never officially asked you out. and to just declare you as his girlfriend is just shitty and downright rude. hes just chicken shit, and he was probably afraid you'd say no. which, right now im believing, you would've said no.
second of all, you need to IM me and tell me who this other guy is. and as for the other girl, you cannot think about her AT ALL. you just have to focus on yourself and how you're going to handle him and how you're gonna get him to like you. you just need to throw hints out there, get his attention, but dont be persistant, dizty, or bitchy at the same time.
third of all, as for breaking up with your boyfriend, i think you're going to have to tell him in person. IMing, E-mailing, Texting and calling just cant fly anymore. tell it to his face, hell, ill be there with you if you want to. all you need to do is go up to him, in private or whatever, and just say, "i dont think this is working out well....i dont feel comfortable going out with you, you didn't bother to even ask you just declared, and i just dont...want to be with you anymore. i dont feel as special with you anymore." and darling, you have to decide whether you're going to tell him that there's a possible other guy. cause if you don't, and you go out with the other guy in less than 2 and a half weeks after, you're in deep shit. ^_^
thats my advice, and i love you. i hope it works out. :D
good luck!
-amy.
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