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Should I be feeling this way?
I need your help melissa, desperatly.
I've been dating this guy who is just a tad bit older than I, for about a month. We were on and off before hand, but he had a girlfriend, and I knew who she was from work. We were friends until the first time that they broke up and he and I had gotten together. Then he felt that things werent right and he needed her back ((he had also gotten her pregnant when she was 18, shes now 19, she had 2 misscarrages.)) but a month ago they split up, and she knew that we were together, and she and I are friends again, but now he wants her back, and he still hasnt gotten over her, and I just feel completely alone. I fell into what I think is "love" with him. and I've been crying for the passed 2 night. He wants to sit and talk to her, and they might get back together, or they might not, but I'm feeling like a rag doll being thrown around. what do I feel? what do I do?
-hopeless romantic.
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You certainly are caught up in a big mess..you really dont desserve anyyy of this. This guy cant go back and forth from you to her...its not right. He isnt over her..and you know this..so the best thing for you to do is get over him. If you keep holding on you will only continue to get thrown around and it isnt fair to you. I know it is going to be exxtremely hard..everyone experiences something like this where they have to let it go even though they really dont want to..but with time you will get stronger. You will grow and learn with your past experiences..and trust me, the right guy will come along someday and he wont play these games with you. Be strong...let him go and you will be so proud of yourself later. I know it seems like it will be impossible right now..but it will get easier. For now keep busy with friends,shopping,meeting new people..etc.
And remember..be strong!
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