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Steven {{again}}
Alright everytime i write a note, or build up enough corage it crumbled down everytime I try to ask Steven out.We hang out in completely diffrent groups becuase all of us run to eachother we cant go to other people who arent in our group cause they'll be like who are u!soo yeah but Steven hangs out with us because of Olivia [a girl he's dated like 10 times.]He's my project partner and HORIBLE! he does nothing and i dont want to yell at him but i keep saying im ganna kick u in ur teeth steven come on! Rebecca {my friend} is always saying ill ak him for u!! but i dont want her too becuase im fat and ugly and im not happy with myself!I am on a diet and weigh 201 and im 13 and its all im my stomach, so i do crunches on the Ab Lounge and a jog in one stop in the baement thats ganna become an exersize room this summer, but its ganna take a long time for my to look the way i want. I want to ask him out without all his friends around but there always around him! Help me i want to ask him out but im ugly and i dont want him to laugh but i think he still likes olivia.. how cna i tell he still likes olivia and if he likes me any?? and any other way i can lose wieght??like specific food i might want to eat
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well first off, before you ask him out, you should find out if he likes olivia. cause if he does, he may not want to go out with you because he's not interested. get your friend rebecca to ask him, or another not so close friend (if you ask a really close friend, he might get suspicious).
if you are positive he doesn't like olivia, then talk to him on AIM or by e-mail. that way, his friends won't be around and you can think out what you are going to say before you say it. it's less awkward, more direct, and he won't feel pressured [ hopefully ].
second, you should NOT feel fat or ugly! everyone is beautiful in their own way. you got lucky because you claim all of it's in your stomach, so you can lose all that "fat" by doing crunches or sit ups.
if he laughs at you after you ask him out, he's not worth your time and you should definitely move on. like, without a doubt.
DO NOT GET YOUR FRIENDS TO GO UP TO HIM AND BE LIKE, "DO YOU LIKE (insert your name here)?????" that's the WORST possible thing you can do!
okay for your second question on how to lose weight:
- excercise
- eat right. eat lots of veggies and fruits and DRINK WATER! 64 oz. a day would be recommended. youre still young, and you can lose the weight fast.
the best advice i can give you about losing weight: tell yourself youre gorgeous. and that you like your body. the more you say "i'm fat i'm so ugly i hate myself" the fatter you will feel and the fatter you will become. i'm not saying eat chocolate non-stop and look in the mirror and say "damn i'm SKINNY" but it's equal parts of excercise, eating right, and mentally... telling yourself youre happy with who you are and how you look.
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