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should i talk to him?
i want to be completely open and honest with people. that means that if i'm having trouble moving on after someone rejected me and feel like i need to talk to him - i should conquer my embarrasment of letting him know that it bothers me as much as it does, and talk to him, right? especially since he's a very understanding person and can probably tell it's bothering me, anyway.
right? or is it maybe not worth it and i should just try to move on by avoiding him? (which, by the way, would be really hard, because we live in a tightly-knit community of 100 ppl). i want to be friends with him, but i'm scared that maybe he doesn't care =/ last thing i want is for him to lie to me to avoid hurting my feelings.
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talk to him and move on
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Are you having a hard time with rejection in general in your life? It would help me if I had a little more detail about how the rejection went, any history together, your age and his. You have nothing to gain by pursuing or avoiding him. Don't go out of your way to do either one. He is only one guy. Not a big deal. Move on. The importance you are placing on this may be the fact that you live in such a teensy tiny community. Remember, there are easily a hundred guys that would love to go out with you for every one guy that rejects you. You may want to explore beyond the pond if all you find there are toads.
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