I am really angry right now. I have been staying at a friends place for a while and she was crying and really upset right now. My friend (lets call her Christina) really really likes this guy named Tacquin. The days I have spent here they hung out/flirted/and yesterday went to the movies (with me and a friend as well). A couple nights ago she told me she had sex with him. I was so suprised since she is only 13! She has liked him for two years and I honestly cant stand him. Last night he got her upset and she practically ran away at the movies until I got her back to her senses. He followed. He then told her "I swear to god I care about you and I will tell everyone to leave you alone and noone will hurt you. I will defend you and I really like you and I will never deny that we had sex cause Im not ashamed because I care about you" now she was overjoyed and then today as they were talking on the phone he told her he had a girlfriend. He has had one for over 3 weeks. She was crushed. He had sex with her and in my opinion completely used her. She is soo broken by it and he is trying to tell her that she shouldnt care and stuff. What should I do or say to convince her to stop liking him? She still does. Should I confront this jerk? Any ideas??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justaskVy answered Monday March 12 2007, 2:53 am: There's nothing you can really say to her. She can't help it, if she could I bet she would get over him already. She doesn't have a choice because she really likes him. No matter how horrible he is, she can't just get over him. In time she will get over him slowly. All you can do is be there for her. Let her lean on your shoulder to cry on. Don't judge her.. if you're her friend. Show her how to have a good time w/o that jerk!. She'll be back on her feet soon. Also show her diff guys who are better than that jerk. A guy who will treat her 10 times better.
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