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me and him


Question Posted Sunday March 11 2007, 10:02 pm

So there is this guy and me and him dated and when we did it was like all we did was have sex. but it wasnt like that when i was with him i never wanted to leave his arms. i have liked him for years and when he was finally mine i did not want to let him go. but he broke up with me and he kept telling me he still liked me. he broke up with me because he needed to focus on school which was true but he always went out with 3 girls after me. also almost getting one of them pregnant. and he lives about 20 minutes away and i dont see him like i would like. but when i do i get the feeling that he does still like me but other times that he doesnt. what should i do to get him back!?

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Adorkable answered Sunday March 11 2007, 10:54 pm:
You said; "He said he needed to focus on school." Yet he is out there screwing around with other girls and almost getting one knocked up? Ok, this will be very blunt, and excuse me if it's brutal, but hun you need to hear this. MOVE ON! Let me de/code 'guy lango' for you. When they say:

"It's not you, its me" =They don't want to be with you

OR

"We're better off friends" =They just wanted some ass

AND THE INFAMOUS

"I need to focus on school or work" =Met somebody new.

He is just keeping you around like cheat codes to a used video game. Only to bring you back when he needs to use you. Find somebody better hun. You can do waaaay better. Let him find some new "cheat codes."

-Adorkable

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