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loner
I am embarrassed about being a loner. I remember when i was alone at school i over heard this girl says i was such a loner then i walked a way and she looked at me and laugh. what can i do so it doesn't look so bad. i want to make friends but no one wants to. I don't consider myself to be a loner and I don't want to be alone. right now I really don't care if i have no friends i think i never cared for years.
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Ok firstly if you don't consider yourself a loner and you don't WANT to be alone, then you aren't a loner. Secondly, there isn't a huge amount you can do. I know that seems like a sucky answer but if you make a huge effort to get friends it might backfire on you. People can be jerks like that- they judge people for 'trying too hard' or some shit.
All I can advise is to work hard on the relationships that you do have. Don't try to rush or push things, just put in the effort to the relationships. Trust me, as annoying as it is to have people judge you and whisper about you behind your back, you'll be better off with a selct group of friends you can count on, rather than a load of people who check the boxes but you hardly know.
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