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this boyy


Question Posted Friday March 9 2007, 5:32 am

Ok,over the weekend I made out with this kid Josh.His mom was away so it was only me and him in his house.We were in his bedroom cuddeling and stuff, when I felt like a buldge and he this OMFG and pushed down and started blushing and it was oviose it was a boner, It was akward and im like its ok Josh your a guy its ganna happen. But he was so nervous and stuff.. im not the prettest girl and a lot of guys call me fat and stuff no one knows we do anything but the furthest we've ever gone is kissing.Were nont going out but do you think I should start doing more with him??Its ovious he's ready but im not sure I am but anytime I tried getting close to him he inched away. I tried {while kissing him} to go down and 'play" i guess and he was like ah! like he was scared. So yeah I asked him.I asked if he wanted more then kissing and he said yes.So again im like so why dont you let me do anything. He was like that was my first boner with a girl actually here I didnt know what to do.So I respected that cause im a virgin but I like Josh and I wouldnt lose my virginity like masterbating him.His mom going away again friday night and I was thinking I would go over.But what would I wear??What would I say??And im the kinda person who gets really hurt easily and I dont want Josh being like Oh no dont do that or something... And Josh is a virgin his like the pillberry dough boy and has only had a couple girlfriends.So i think Im ganna be the first girl touching him what should I say to him while im doing it or should I even try to do it, im confused because while kissing I wasnt getting turned on by it.I like being close with him but not i donno how to explain it I like it but not enough to jump on top of him and have my way with HIM im 13\f and a virgin I havent jacked a guy off before so I dont know how or what to do!

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greentea answered Saturday March 10 2007, 12:08 pm:
Well. It's obvious that Josh here is probably telling you that he wants to do more than kissing so that you don't think he's inexperainced.
The facts speak for themselves if he doesn't allow you to touch him, he is not ready.
I wouldn't try anything more. Give it time. You don't have to jack him off the day after you started kissing. Let him touch you first, and then you'll know he wants to do more.

But I can give you three points that really helped me out with hand jobs

1- Work the head
2- Keep it moist (To do that, I usualy alternate from my mouth to my hand. So that the spit from my mouth can be used like a lubricant.)
(oh,and if you're using your mouth, DON'T bite,roll your lips over you teeth if you have trouble with that.)
3- go fast
Make sure you have somewhere to shoot the sperm ,when you do (into a cup, a napkin.) Or just swallow.
That does taste quite awful though.

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