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The question is "how"?


Question Posted Saturday March 3 2007, 9:05 pm

All I ask for is comfort from my peers. I am offered it, but I never accept it in its entirety. I tell myself that I should embrace the feelings I crave when the time comes, but I guess I don't want to seem awkward. I know I value myself and I know others feel the same way about me as I do myself, so why does it seem like I question myself when it comes to this? How could I make the other person feel more at ease when it comes to things like cuddling because my body tenses up: always.

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christina answered Saturday March 3 2007, 9:44 pm:
Don't ask for comfort if when it's offered, you won't accept it. Always accept your comfort. Everyone questions themselves, no matter what. It's always gonna happen. No one is as happy about themselves as they think, so you're completely normal. As for cuddling, maybe you're just nervous when it happens, and that's why you tense up. Just relax & let it flow.

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