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tired of being confused
SAM f/14 ok well i really like a good guy friend of mine and have liked him for about a month or so. at 1st i thought he liked me but he told me he doesnt and it really hurt. but he acts like he does and that really confuses me. and wenever it comes up he says he doesnt. but i dunt get it. is he just flirting around all the time for no reason??? i wouldnt want to lose our friendship over somethin like this but hes all i ever think of and i wanna forget him but i just cant. he makes me smile and laugh and wenever im not with him i just think about him.....
i constantly dream about him and i wanna stop,, ive tried to forget him but when i see him (like every single day) i just wanna be with him. i still believe that he does like me even though hes made it pretty clear that he doesnt. there are just so many signs that he does and idk wat to do about it.
its MY fault though for liking him so much and i know i have to stop...
thanx =)
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Yes, you do have to stop. He has indeed made his feelings quite clear, and I suspect that what you see as flirting and "signs" are just examples of him being a friendly person.
What you have is an obsession, and NO guy wants to be the target of an obsession. You're going to have to take control of your feelings and look at the situation realistically. Even if he does have feelings for you, he is clearly not going to act on them, so if you badger him about it it's just going to make him angry with you. I assume that's not what you want.
If you want your friendship to survive, you are going to have to write him off as potential boyfriend material. Otherwise, HE will end it when you begin to annoy him too much.
Don't give up all hope, though. Maybe in a couple of years, he will see you in that light as well. You can't force it, though, and don't count on it.
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