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*sigh* yeah, another one.
15/f.
I know you get trillions of these questions, but...
theres this boy and i've just started to become friends with him.
i really really like him alot, and already care about him alot.
I want to know, should I get a really good friendship going and then
tell him i like him? or should i tell him early in the friendship?
because he's someone i'd like to be friends with, even if he didnt like me back...
but if we were to go out, i wouldnt want a silly little fling... i'd want a real relationship.
any opinions are appreciated : ) thanks.
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in my opinion you just answered the question yourself... tell him exactly what you asked "he's someone i'd like to be friends with, even if he didnt like me back...
but if we were to go out, i wouldnt want a silly little fling... i'd want a real relationship" so tell him exactly how you feel
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i think you should wait it out a little bit. Get to know each other better without becoming best buddies. That can sometimes mess things up<--never wanting to date someone that you are good friends with, scared of messing up the friendship. But just keep a close enough distance that he can tell that you are an awesome person that he would like to get to know, but keep a mysterious air about you.... and who knows, if you get to know him better, you may discover that he is generally a good friend and not someone you would like to date. But never rush into anything.
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