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I broke up with my boyfriend and now I want him back.
Sorry my question is so long, it's just alot to explain to help you understand; so thank you for your time. I am 20 years old and my ex boyfiend will be 24 this month. I hung out out with my ex over the summer for a few months before we started dating. When we finally did things got really serious real fast,he was unlike anyone I had ever met. Then he broke up with me after three months. He just quit calling me. About three weeks later I found out I was pregnate by him. I told him and he wanted to work things out. I said we'd see. After about two months we got back together and things were great. One night he invited me over, cooked dinner and we ate by candle light. He told me he was in love with me and gave me roses. It was the most perfect night of my life and I had the perfect guy. Two days later I lost the baby. After that things started to changed so I asked him if he still wanted to be with me. He said alot had happened in the last weeek and he didn't even know what to think. Loosing the baby was hard on both of us, so I understood because I felt the same way. thats why I was asking, but later on that night he said he had bad feelings about me and about us. The next day I broke up with him because it was easier than him hurting me again. Now been two months and I've thought about him every day I've never felt this way before and I don't want to lose him. Can you please help?
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About all you can do now is talk to him and see if time has changed anything. Grief can make people say and do things they may not mean, then its hard to take it back.
The best thing to do may be to write it all out. How you feel about him, what you miss because he is not there. Let him read it then give him a couple of days and see what happens. Don't be afraid to open up and tell him exactly how you feel.
There is a chance that he doesn't feel the same way you do anymore. You need to let him know your feelings though because if you don't say anything you may never know. It deserves a shot.
Good luck. :)
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