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i hate my parents.
my parents are way strict. i hate it. they`re asian, that`s why. my dad doesn`t really know anything, but recently, my mom found out that i`m friends with a few gangsters and i`ve been sneaking around hanging out with them and stuff. &she found out that THEY were the ones driving, not parents. now she won`t let me hang out with them. idk what to do. cuz i`m good friends with them. &i want to hang out with them. i hate her. she`s so controling. what do i do ?
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look i know parents (especially mothers) can seem so controlling, but it is only because they love you. now i know that is a typical answer but it is true. i dont know how old you are but i am in my teens and i have gone through my parents not trusting me and i hated it. but if you are really young then i can understand them not wanting you to hang out with older guys who can drive because they have power over you. you never know what the guys have in mind to do with you. it is extremly dangerous. mabey you should introduce the guys to your parents so they wouldnt mind letting you hang out with them. when my parents dont want me to hang out with someone, i just invite the person to my house so they can meet my parents and my parents feel a little better because they know who i am with. so try it, it might work.
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this probably isn't what you want to hear, but i'm going to be honest...
she's probably "controlling" because you were sneaking around with gangsters. um, hello- last time i checked parents didn't like hen their kids snuck around without their permission. to me, this just screams "trust issue."
and i'm pretty sure being asian isn't the only reason. have you done things like this in the past? have you done anything else that would make them distrust you?
put yourself in their shoes- they just want what's best for you, i promise. but if you still think they're reasons are unjustified, then sit them down and have a talk with them about your feelings, and then ask them if you could have a chance to show them your responsible and make desicions you think are right.
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