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how do i say goodbye? im done?
hey!my names jessica and im a girl and just wanted too ask u a quick question--ok so theres this guy and we dated for a while and stuff and then he always broke up with me and crap soo we like didnt talk for a while then last month he called and said he wwanted too date and i said id give one more chance and then we started talking and then he always gets drunk soo i told him i think hes stupid for doing that and he went off and i told him were not good together but he still wants too talk soo how do i tell him im not going too be here for you and stuff like im done.?? if u could help me itd be greatly appreciated!!!
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Well, yes, I see drinking can be a big problem in a relationship. I was kind of in one, so I know how it feels. Don't tell him he's stupid, because that just sets guys off more. Good for you for letting him go, because I finally called it quits with the guy I was with too. I think (to just make it simple and easy) call him, and just tell him you guys need to talk. I'm not sure if you would want to compromise with him, so if you do, say something like this:
"Listen, I gave you another chance, and I'm willing to make this relationship work. I don't mind if you go to a party, or you're with friends, but I don't appreciate it when you get totally wasted. If you really respect me and want to be with me, maybe you should think twice about drinking."
Now, if you really don't want to do that, here's how I did it- call him, or in person, whichever you're more comfortable with, and say:
"Listen, I gave you two chances and you didn't cut the crap. I told you I don't like it when you drink and get completely wasted. I'm sick of it, and I don't think this is how a relationship should be going. I really don't think that we're the best couple together, and I think before anyone gets hurt we should just break it off now. I'm sorry."
That's very similar to what I said, and I hope this is somewhat decent advice, because sometimes it's hard.
Good Luck, hun♥
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