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I am a prude but i want to change it.
Im a 14:f and i haven't had a bf before. i wanna go out with someone but i don't know how to get a guy to notice and like me. What do you suggest?
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sorry i took so long to answer...
so there are a few things to consider:
1. so do you have any guy friends? I'm not saying that you should go out with one, but it would help you become more comfortable around guys. And if you already are comfortable, it would really let guys know that you're cool. And you could flirt with some(but not the ones that it would be weird to flirt with). If you just want a boyfriend for the sake of having one, then maybe one of your guy friends would ask you. But make sure that you don't throw yourself at them... that would be a turn off.
2. if there's a certain guy you have your eye on, then flirt with him. if youre not already friends, talk to him. he'll appreciate it. if he seems like he doesnt want to talk to you, then stop, but otherwise, go for it!
3. dress well! i'm not saying that you should dress like a slut; please dont. thats the worst. a good thing to do is show a little skin in one area. if you're wearing a short skirt, then wear a less revealing top. if you have an off the shouler top, then make sure that it's not also going to reveal your belly.
4. walk with confidence. hold your chin up, don't slouch. it really makes a difference. even if you're feeling really self concious, no one will be able to tell. think, "i own it," and you'll walk like you do.
5. remember: DON'T THROW YOURSELF AT GUYS! it's suchhh a turn off. guys don't want a girl that any other guy could get. they want to feel like they accomplished something by scoring you.
good luck! hope you get one soon.
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