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I Want to Go On This Trip + Anal Father
Today is the last day I can call my youth pastor to tell him that I want to go on this trip that the chruch is having. The problem is, my father has a tendency to say NO to everything and he constantly tells me I don't deserve these things. Another hurdle, I have a problem with speaking with people with my fear of rejection. Now, I've been doing my chores, I have good grades, and I've been an all around good teenager. How can/should I ask him?
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I would just sit down with your father and let him know you have something important to talk about with him.
I would just be like,"Now dad, you know I get good grades, I've been doing all my chores, I'm responsible. Now the Church is having this trip that I really want to go on. Now today is the last day that I can call the Youth Pastor and let him know if I can go or not, so please, can I go? It's not like anything bad is going to happen since it IS a church trip, and there's going to be adult supervision and everything." And just give him all the details on where you're going, and what you guys are doing.
I hope I helped & I hope he says yes.
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If you want to go then yes, ask your dad. Explain to him nothing bad will happen and it's obviously a good trip, since it's through the church. Also, what you'll be doing there and maybe why you want to go. Just be polite about it, and hopefully he'll say yes.
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