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Shy around guys I like
When I am around guys that I am JUST friend's with it i have a great personality, like i am funny and flirty, but when I start to like the guy or he is my boyfriend, all the sudden I can't think of things to talk about so i'm quiet.
My question is, how can I work towards fixing this? Because I know if I don't my relationships won't last long.
Thanks.
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hey, well i had the same problem before. i was in a relationship with someone that i knew for quite a while and that i was friends with previously before starting a relationship with him. then i met someone when i transfered schools. we started a relationship that i am still in to this day. i feel way more comfortable around him that i ever thought of being with the other guy. basically what im trying to say to you is sometimes knowing someone for a long time and being friends with them before starting a relationship isn`t always the best thing to do. well at least, thats what kind of relationships work best for me. the kind that you just met someone and within a week of talking to them, you flirt like crazy and basically have a relationship based on flirting, rather then a friendship. the second thing that could be the problem, is you. maybe your just not mature enough for a relationship yet and are basically treating it like a friendship. if you think that that`s the problem, just flirt with strictly friends and stay single for a little. true love WILL find its way when you LEAST expect it. whether its at age 15 or at age 21, it will come for you. just hang in there. things have to get WORSE before then can get BETTER. i wish you the best of luck :].
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