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mute with boys uhh i have a problem..
i cant talk to boys.
like i cannn but i cant like contuinue a conversation or anything like that. &&& I CANT START A CONVERSATION.. omgggg helpp me
thanks in advance
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I am sure you have talked to those of the male gender when you were not nervous about liking them, right? Practice talking to guys you are not interested in first. That way, you have nothing to lose. In most ways, talking to a guy is easier than talking to girls. Why? Because, guys are not going to read as much into everything you say and are much more simple creatures linguistically. Just say what ever you want, guys are not as judgemental in this area, because they are not great conversationalists themselves. They have low standards when speaking! Ever hear a group of guys talking? Most of the words are just grunts. When you do talk with a guy you like, just keep it simple and real. Don't be phony or act dumb. Be yourself and smile! ]
hey, well talking to boys can be a toughie for shyer people. you just need to act confident. even if your not confident at all, just do it. boys love confidence and can sense it from a mile away. as for things to talk about, talk about what happened in school today or even just social things. example: talk about bob and carla going out. talk about things you have in common. say you both play soccer. talk about your postions or something to do with soccer. whatever you do dont talk about things you dont know about like if he plays baseball. chances are you dont know a thing about the sport, so the whole time its going to be like mhmm or oh. talk about something that you can actually get into and understand. ]
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