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thinking of somebody else
ok this is really bad. when my boyfriend and i have sex for some reason i always think about my friends having sex with their boyfriends and girlfriends and it like grosses me out. so then i was like ok this is bad but then i thought well atleast its not somebody worse im thinking about so then of course i start thinking. theres this guy kj that used to bother me all the time about leaving my bf for him and i never did, but i liked him. but he doesnt bother me anymore because he figured out im not leaving my bf and he keeps coming in my mind when we have sex! i dont want him to! how do i get it to stop? its like ruining are sex life or whatever. he gets pissed, and so do i. how do i make it stopppppppppp??!?!?
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Part of you is not in the moment with your own boyfriend because you think you are missing out on being with someone else or the possibility of life without him being better. This does not mean you want to leave your guy, it just means you need to think about why you are together and if it is truly what you want. Are you just settling for now? We cannot trick our hearts into wanting what we don't really want. Another possible answer is that you are the type of person who thinks she does not deserve to be happy. This is serious if that is the case. You need to quit that thinking or you will always second guess yourself and not let yourself enjoy the moment. Think about both possibilities and give yourself permission to explore what you want and why you deserve it.
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