Ok...the story is that my ex and I broke up 4 months ago. I am still completely inlove with him no matter how I have tried getting over him. We still talk and all, sometimes hang out. People who don't even know him though saw that I should find out if he still likes me because to them it seems like he does. Because he treats me the way he would when we were together and he's always calling me and will talk to me for hours on end. And there was a time when he said that he misses me. Then...I have some other friends who say he is just using me right now(but we're not together and don't have sex or anything). And another thing that confuses me is that my ex will bring up random things about when we were together and will talk about the stuff we did and the places we went. One person said that he might still like me but is just being a typical guy and is afraid to show that he cares. I would like to know other peoples opinions on what they think of this situation. The help is much appriciated.
I don't know why he would be using you, if you aren't even having sex with him. (Good for you!)
Best thing you can do is talk to him about it and try to find out what's going on in his head. If he has never given you reason to mistrust him, then I would listen to what he has to say rather than what others say about him. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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