So me and this one guy Tom, we talk alot. we joke about everything. LIke he found lube in my house, thinking it was mine when it wasnt and now he constantly jokes about it saying "oh maybe we should use it sometime" or "when do you want me to come over" hes always asking me when or if we can hang out. He tells me when i look good, no hes not gay. He asks me who i like alot, and he wont tell me who he likes, he'll usually tell me 2 out of 3 but he says he can't tell me the other one. He wants to take me to a club (a teeen one) because i dotn go to the school one because of teachers, i told him (true), and he says "i needa take you there so you can dance with me" stuff like that. Then when i found out that people at school were saying i liked him i asked about it. and then hes was like "oh i didnt hear about this, but do you like me" and i changed the subject and now we havent talked when before he would I.M me whenever he was on and answer my calls. He went out with my best friend, she knew i liked him. Me & her look alot alike, and he still flirts with her, their not going out. The thing is do you think he likes me. Say the truth, dont butter it up to protect my feelings. thankss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? surf_princess04 answered Monday February 12 2007, 2:53 am: he probably did like you but when you didnt tell him you liked him and changed the subject he probably thought that you dont like him...so now that he is always flirting with your best friend he probably likes her now...but dont worry you will find the right guy...you dont have to rush in to finding true love you have your whole life for that just have fun being a teen...trust me...
christina answered Sunday February 11 2007, 11:25 pm: For a second, I thought you were a guy because you said he wasn't guy, but then I kept reading. Don't be offended.
Anyways, you should've told him how you felt when he asked you about it. You guys talked alot & were close, so you should've let him know when he asked you. He deserves the truth, and you didn't tell him, so now what?
If you like him, call him & tell him. Or tell him in person. Pull him aside & tell him that you're sorry you didn't let him know before but that you're positive you like him. If they're not going out, she shouldn't care what you do. And besides, she obviously never cared how you felt if she knew you liked him, but then dated him anyways. Just tell him how you feel. If he feels the same, then go out. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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