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Would this work?
I'm in a relationship with this guy. We have been going out since the 6th. And I'm having weird feelings about him.
We talked online. I like him when I talk to him online but in person.. those feelings slowly fade. I still think he's sweet but I can't see myself kissing him.. when he's actually around me. When I'm at home.. I can picture it.
I have OCD. I think he's.. dirty and I don't really want to touch him. That sounds stupid i know..
I don't know if this could work because he's so busy. He has a job. He's in karate/gymnastics.
Should I give him space and be distance with him? I don't want to be clingy. I don't want to ask him to hang out with me one weekend if he's that busy.
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If he is too busy to hang out on the weekend, he'll say as much. Don't be afraid to ask him to hang out with you out of fear he has too many other plans.
If you have OCD, it explains a lot about not wanting to touch the guy. It doesn't make you sound stupid- you have a disorder. You need to find a way to over come your issues with not wanting to touch others, but for you that is more difficult to do than it would be for me.
Do you see a doctor or councilor about your OCD? If you do, you should ask them about this. They know your history, and we don't. They may be able to help you find a way to feel comfortable being affectionate with him.
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Maybe hes just not the right guy..that doesnt sound like a good relation ship if you dont want to kiss him and think hes dirty..if you think its because of ocd then you need to see a doctor and get it fixed...seems like youve already given him space..if you dont want him then dont go with him....i really do think you should see a doctor though.
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