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cheating help..asap
well im not sure what to do..this this guy kevin and were friends with benefit but were more like boy friend girl friend but without the title were realy close.he is very anti cheating even talking about it pisses him off.i want to be honest and tell him that when i was still dating jorden that i cheated on jorden with him but im scared of what he will do.i asked him but i said what if and he said he would probly be ashamed and might go back to old habits such as cutting,drinking.ect. what should i do i wanna be honest and tell him but i dont want to lose what we have pls help asap
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If you like him, tell him the truth. You don't have to since you're not really dating each other, but since you are super close, I think he deserves that much. Let him know what you did, and that you'll never do it again. Tell him you've learned your lesson. Only thing is, you've gotta mean what you're saying. If you don't mean it, don't say it to just make it up to him. If he really cares, he might just give you another chance, or he can just walk away. I know what it feels like to be cheated on, so imagine how he feels. Cheating on someone is basically saying "They've got something you don't." And if that's how it is, you shouldn't be with that person.
But be honest with him because he deserves to know. Don't ya think?
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then be honest....its really not a requirement thought since your not officially going out and those old bad habits are his doing and he cant blame them on anyone else....if you want to be honest then do it but if your not officially going out then you really dont owe it to him because for all you know if he hasnt asked you out he could be using you...you could start off fresh ask him out and just say nothing about it..to him..but im sure hes no angel either so dont feel to bad and if he goes back to those things its not your fault....hes not even giving you a real relationship and you dont know how many girls hes doing the same with since technically its not cheating if their all friends with benefits...tell him if you want but hell take it how he takes it good or bad and if he goes back to those things hes voluntarily doing it no ones forcing it on them..its bad on his part to hold it over your head or use it to get what he wants..your better of ending this and finding a boyfriend learn from your mistakes
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