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I Neeed Advicee , I think im pregnant
I use to read on here gurls sayin they think there pregnant and im like man why dont they just get testedd yeah while i think im pregnant now! and i have noo money for a test. I slept with this guy the Dec 10 or sumthing and i still havnt got my period.When i get up to get ready for school i always fell like im going to throw up. I have yelllow discharge, and i keep having these pains right in my crouch ! , and its like stinging pains , and im really scaredd. cause i cant tell ANYONE who the dad is , and i cant ask my friends for advicee cause i cant tell them iv slept with this certain guy .. cause they all hate him but i dontt !
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save your money for the test.
and if you are you need to go to planned parenthoood.
it also sounds like you could have an STD.
you need to get tested too. i believe planned parenthood does that for free.
and you need to ask the guy if he has an STD.
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Your in a very scary situation.
I don't think a advice website can clear your problems, but I can atleast try to help.
It sounds like you've got an STD. Usually pregnancy in it's early stages don't involve discharge and pains. But Im no doc, so you really really really really need to get tested. If you can't afford to do that yourself, go online and find a free clinic in your area. It is IMPERATIVE you get tested, because if it's an STD the longer you wait to get treated, the worse it may get. And if you are pregnant, the longer you wait until you find out, the more harm can come to the baby who needs care.
If you can't find a clinic, try a older friend, a family member, guidance counselor, anyone you can truly trust, and ask for help. This is NOT something you can do on your own.
You need to stop worrying about what your friends or might think, because if you are pregant, that pales in comparision. Your health is the most important thing here, so don't let anything stand in your way. And if your friends are your true friends, they will stand by you no matter what.
Your family will stand by you also. They love you and want what is best for you.
Tell the guy. Be straight forward. Ask him if he has had any STD's. That can help you determine if you might have gotten anything from him.
What I am really saying is, you must be proactive and take responsibilities for your actions. Knowledge is power, and you must know before deciding anything else. Like, if your pregnant, will you keep the baby? will you give it up for adoption? Will you chose abortion? How will you support the child? Will this certain guy be a father figure?
You must get tested to know any of that.
So please, do whatever it takes. Get tested.
May God be with you in your time of need.
-DearAbby92
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Well it does sound as if you are pregnant. I'd try to save up enough money to buy a test, just to be sure though.
And for the telling your friends thing, that's hard, but if you are pregnant..they're gonna have to find out. Explain to them this guy isn't really that bad and maybe arrange for them to hang out?
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