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Problems with girlfriend's respect, etc.
Hi, I'm 25 years old and have been in a relationship for 8 months. I love this woman more than anything in the world, and want to share my life with her. However, we have a lot of problems. I feel like she doesn't respect my feelings, gets mad at me for the stupidest things, talks to me/treats me like a child, she doesn't show me much affection anymore. I feel like she is irritated with me almost all the time, she hardly ever shows me she loves me anymore. She always has to have things her way and on her time. And when I try to talk to her about these issues, all we do is get into a huge fight and I feel like I have no chance to say everything I need to say. I don't know what to do! I'm afraid she is going to make me have to leave because I'm not going to see any other option, but that's not what I want. I want to spend the rest of my life with her and be happy.
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OK listen up close:
Life is a game.Learn how to play it. They say there are no rules in love. Trust me. There are.
Unfortunatelly, someone has to have the upper hand. Unless the man has the upper hand the woman leaves. Why do you think assholes get all the girls? Girls need a good guy...to avoid him, torture him and get their proudness dose.
1)Dont EVER get jeallous. She makes a comment about someone else? Fine...tell her "OK, go find a better boy than me and I ll go find a better girl,we ll both be happy then".
2)Adopt a "I can have a hot looking, blond haired, blue eyed, big boobied girl anytime" attitude. Let her know your next girl will be much hotter than her.
3)Dont act as if you need her. If she runs away, she probably does it so you will run after her. Dont,let her do all the running.
4)Dont talk issues, dont let her attitude affect you.
5)Dont be a good guy. If you treat her like a princes she will no longer try to be good for you. Dont buy her stuff, and do everything for her all the time, just "throw the dog a bone".
The fact is, that she got tired. That is why she is so touchy. You have to be very carefull.
Whatever happens, keep in mind that things are going as well as they can go no matter what is happening.If you brake up, you brake up for your own good. It will not be the end of the world.Just for a couple of months. Till you get yourself a woman who can make you forget all about her.
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hey. Well I read your problem and I want to help. I think u should tell her exactly what you just told me. U need to tell her that you love her and don't want to leave her but that you guys have so much problems
Make it clear to her that you don't want to leave her you just want to solve the problems that you guys have
Tell her that you feel that she doesn't appreciate you as much as you want her too. Just whatever you say or do let her know that you love her. You sound like a really nice guy that loves her a lot. I don't think she wants to loose you.
if this doesn't work just remeebr that there is a possibility that she might not feel the same way...and if she doesn't do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't love you as much as you love her.
Remember love is like a plant. If you don't feed it..it can die.
I hope I helped.
Xoxo johanny
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