Okay. This one person in my class guessed who I liked, and told EVERY-ONE. Now the person I know likes him, and he told my friend "I dont realy know her but shes cool I guess" Or something like that. I'm FREAKING out though. I really like him but I can't even look at him because since he knows, I dont want to look obsessed with him...And I just dont know what to do because now a lot of people know I like him. Please...please...help me.
Additional info, added Friday February 9 2007, 8:40 pm: "Now the person I know likes him" Sorry I meant now the person I like knows i like him.
I also forgot to mention its just akward going down the school halls. I know people are probably thinking nothing much of it because its just someone that I like, but still..I dont know what to do.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? andalixsays answered Friday February 9 2007, 10:31 pm: I know exactly what you're going through, because it happened to me a little while back. Take the weekend to mope, and choose someone else in some of your classes to become obsessed with. You don't even have to like him, but pay a lot of attention to him. You don't have to act like you like him, either. But pay special attention to him in order to get your mind off of the guy you like. Notice what shoes he wore, or if he did his hair differently. (Just so you know, I read that idea somewhere and it helped me tons.)
also, remember this: if you seem desperate, your guy won't like you.
So don't seem desperate. Do whatever it takes to pay little attention to him. If he looks your way, smile, but not flirtatiously, and go back to what you were doing. If you try and seem a little embarrased and humbled, that would be good too. He'll know that you don't like the situation, but you'll deal. And that's cool. [ andalixsays's advice column | Ask andalixsays A Question ]
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