Iam afraid to bring him becouse they are racist and one of my racist cousins spread a nasty rumor about him to all of my family members she told them that he was black but that's not the rumor she spread a horrible rumor about him being a woman beater and i know this isn't true becouse i've asked all of his ex girlfriends if he ever beat on them and they all said it was a lie and they said it was perfectally safe for me to date them but she went and told everybody in my whole family that he was a woman beater even though he's not and now my family can't stand him so i don't have a chance for them to like him and i already had to dump him once already this is the second time i've gone out with him and i really don't want to have to break up with him again what should i do about that?Iam sorry i didn't put that in the question before i forgot.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxSAANxx answered Thursday February 8 2007, 7:15 pm: If your cousin is spreading rumors about him then they don't respect you. They may think that he is not good enough for you. Let them get to know him and how he is like. Tell them if they care about you as mucha as they say they do the they will get to know him and not judge him. You could also talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about the situation. It should be your decsion who you date and not your cousins. If you don't want to have him at the dance because of your family then why don't you have him go to the movies with you instead. There is plent of thing that you could do instead of going to the dance.
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