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what does he mean
ok so i just met this guy and he is so cute and we were talking in my friends care wile my friend wasnt there (was pumping gas) and we were talking and he asked me if i had a boyfriend i didnt want to sound like i wanted one really bad so i said "no i dont like boyfriends" and then hes said "oh your afending me" what did he mean by that does i didnt know what me meant so i was just like oh and then my friend got back in the car so we didnt talk anymore what did he mean by i was afending him?
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the word is Offend, to offend someone is to cause them hurt or discomfort through words or actions.
so any other words, when he asked you if you had a boyfriend and you said, "no, you don't like boyfriends" then you offended him...
you hurt him through your words... though i don't think that you actually hurt him... he probably said it in a light hearted manner that was meant to be flirtatious.
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He probably was taking you at your word. Guys tend to do that, so be honest and direct next time. Keep it simple and don't confuse him by trying to appear cool...rarely works that way. What is cool to a guy is a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. No more games. Tell him you were teasing not offending and that you think he is very adorable. That will fix it quick before you push him into someone else's arms.
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