Hello there, My name is stuart im from the uk,,
i need advice,,, can you help?
there is a women aged 24 (im 22) who i have
been very good freinds since i was about 6
years old,i am also freinds with her brother,
he is my best freind..she (jay) has just
came out a long term relationship 6 months ago
which she has got 3 children,. i go round
to her house evey day, to see her. the problem is i think im in love with her,but i carnt tell if she feels the way,we can sit there for hours talking about things,i love spending time with her
,what do you think i should do? as i dont want to lose our frendship,but she is my ideal lady and i can not live without not no,ing is she feels the same way as i do......
PLEASE HELP ME A.S.A.P KIND REGARDS STUART
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chrissabelle37 answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 9:02 pm: Hey. Wow! That is an amazing friendship! 16 years! If you feel that you're really in love with this women I would definitely go for it! Also, you have a great relationship with her family and you two sound like you really work together if you can talk for hours. Although, she may'be felt the same way about you for a long time and just never had the guts to tell you. This may be why you've stayed friends with her so long, you may both be in love. I would start things off slowly though because you may have both waited so long that it will come as a shock to her and she may not know how to react. Start by inviting her to a movie or something you both do together and then give her a kiss. See how she reacts. You'd be surprised and she may reject you at first because she's so shocked. But it will let her think about things and she probably knows what a great father to her kids you would be. If she says no don't be hurt because she may not want to wreck your friendship. But I have a feeling things will eventually work out great if you start out slowly and then eventually ask her out. I really hope this helped and good luck! =) [ chrissabelle37's advice column | Ask chrissabelle37 A Question ]
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