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I'm jealous.
I'm a fourteen year old girl. My best friends, Jenny and Danny, have just started going out. Me and Danny were really great friends, and i trust him with everything. We used to flirt like crazy, even though we both knew it was nothing. I don't think I ever even liked him. But now that they're going out, I'm really jealous, and I hate it. It's hard to even talk to him, because I have to be careful about what I say. And, I'm jealous of Jenny. I know it's partially because she might replace me, but it's not all that, at least I dont think so. I really do love Danny, but as a friend. I don't think I love him as anything more. Why do you think I'm so jealous? What can I do?
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Even if you hadn't been friends with Danny beforehand, these feelings are actually very normal. When a close friend starts dating a guy, no matter who he is, you'll start to view them a little differently. Don't let these feelings bother you. They mean nothing. Dealing with them is another story. I think that if you talked to Jenny a little about this that it would help. Your relationship with Danny is affected by his relationship with Jenny and it doesn't have to be. If Jenny is okay with you harmlessly flirting with Danny, which she should be, things between you and Danny wouldn't be quite so different. Other than that, the only thing that can help is time. Good luck. :)
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