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how do you know if its really LOVE?
my boyfriend and i were together for 6 months and i liked him for a year(it took us a while to go actually become a couple) well, i broke up with him a month ago because we fought too muchand when we first broke up i thought i should go out and have fun and flirt so i kissed two other guys and when i did i kept thinking about him and how much better of a kisser he was, how much nicer he was, etc..and ever since then its been off and on missing him insanely..to not wanting to talk to him(thats only when he wants to talk about stuff about him missing me and stuff though)to feeling like i absolutely love him..weve hung out since we broke up and on impulse i ran up and hugged and kissed him and felt SO HAPPY and i still find myself wanting to be with him..and other guys just dont seem to compare to him and i still always wanna call him when im sad and need someone..but sometimes i dont even think about him much and after the breakup i wasnt even that devastated..just felt empty..is this love or something im mistaking for love? im sorry its long haha i go into detail too much i gotta fix that i suppose
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you are probably in love.. even the people who are in really deep love have days where they dont really feel much, couples arnt always goin to be all lovey dovey u just have to get past those days where u dont feel much. and the same thing hapened to me, actualy almost hte exact same thing. so i would go give him another chance.
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i really feel that love is this:
you think about this person all the time, and are content with just thinking about them, rather than feeling the need to always be with them.
you don't even have to ask yourself if you love this person. you know.
if someone asks you if you love this person, you don't even have to consider it. its always yes.
i suppose it shouldnt be complicated. you shouldn't have to consider many things. you should just know. and i really think that's love.
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it definitely sounds like love to me. i know i'd go insane like that if my boyfriend and i broke up, and i'm sure we're in love. i hope things work out :]
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No problem. the long ones are the best. i would totally say its love. and you should so talk to him and see how he feels too. I really hope it works out for you two!!!
--natalie
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