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should i keep trying or move on?
13/f
okay so, I used to like this one boy A LOT lets call him Alex. this was back in october. Well, Alex and I talked, but not as much as I wanted to. We were friends, sorta, But I didn't think he liked me. Then this other kid, lets call him Mike, asked me out. I liked Mike a little bit, but not nearly as much as I liked Alex, but I didn't think Alex liked me, so I said yes to Mike. After about a week I decided it wasn't fair to Mike, if I went out with him, while liking Alex way more, so I broke up with him. Then one of my girlfriends, lets call her Mellisa, was talking to Alex (they're pretty good friends), and she asked about me. Alex said that he used to like me A LOT, and that he was going to ask me out, but then I went out with Mike, so he wasn't sure if he still liked me. Currently, I really really really really realy like Mike. But I'm still not sure if he likes me, so should I move on, and try to find a new guy, or should I keep trying for Mike? Thanks sooo much.
xoxo
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First off, thanks for asking me!
Ok, well it seems to me that you are stressing out a little bit too much. You are 13 and have a whole lotta living to do, and this is not the last boy that you will love. But... to answer your question,do what feels right to you. If you think it appropriate to do so, then sit down with Alex and tell him how you feel, if you dont want to, then dont. Trust me, there will be plenty of boys in the future.
So go with what makes you feel happy, if thats Alex, Mike, or nobody.
Thanks again!
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