okay so my bf really want to have sex but i dont really feel comfortable doing it bc everytime we are at his house he lives in the basement but everytime we are there and we mess around his mom always yells down for him to come up to help her with something. now i want to wait until we live together which will be in june. im 18 and hes 19 btw. so it is really fair for me to have him wait. i just want to do it with no interuptions. haha is that too much to ask?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? megan13456 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 6:13 pm: Deffinatly not to much to ask. Just tell him you want to wait till you two live together and that you would feel uncomfortable if you did it and his mom kept intrupting. I know you probably have heard this enough, but if he really does love you he will respect your wishes, and that's true. Maybe wait till his mom leaves the house if he cant wait simply a few months. Do it at your house. there are other options if he really cant wait. But if you want to wait till june tell him and he should respect it.
illdomybest answered Sunday January 28 2007, 6:07 pm: theres nothing unfair or fair about making him wait.if your not comfortable doing something then you dont have to just tell him you want to wait until you move intogeather if he loves you then hell understand he should consider himself privelaged that your even willing to do it with him. if you guys are serious about eachother then you should have all the time in the world if neither of you are going anywhere so waiting a few months isnt going to kill him..if he respects you. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
askxbrooke answered Sunday January 28 2007, 6:02 pm: No! its perfectly normalfor you not to want to have sex just yet. try telling him that you want to wait a bit. if you dont feel comfortable then dont do it. thats not fair to you. you have to think about you. dont do something you'll regret ;] hope i helped
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