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What happens after u have sex??


Question Posted Sunday January 28 2007, 11:57 am

Ok so i am kind of shy on this subject but my b.f. and i have had sex a cupple times with protection of course but anyways um...well the first cupple times i did not hurt me but then it started to hurt!! I was bleeding like a cupple days after and it has been hurting for the last 2 days!! Is this normal?? Am i goin to be fine?? I am so wored...so write me bak k. o by the way i am 15/f.

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sugarplum07 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 5:59 pm:
Relax. Your body just needs time to adjust to sex. The first few times, it will hurt. Make sure to wait a few days inbetween each time you have sex so your body has time to relax. Since sex causes a lot of friction down there, it will be sore. Plus, since you're 15, you may not be fully developed yet and you may not be able to accomodate a penis inside of you. The bleeding is from your torn hymen. Just wear a pad until the bleeding goes away. If you keep bleeding within a week, and it's not your period, I would suggest seeing a doctor, but I don't think it will come to that.

If you find that it continues to hurt, try doing different positions. If this is both yours and you boyfriend's first experiences with sex, you need to experiment and find positions that are comfortable with the both of you. If he is hurting you, tell him so he can do something different.

And btw, don't be embarassed. Sexual curiosity is totally healthy and I'm so happy to hear that you are practicing safe sex. Too many stupid people on this website don't.

Just let me know if you need to know anything else.

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