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Does he like me? 14 F.
Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me.
Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy.
Oh, let me add some more details about us, I guess. I gave him a present over christmas break (it was just a card lol) and he seemed to really like it, he had this big smile on his face. And he's always telling me how nice I look. Also, I'm the girl he talks most to in class (this isn't much though, because there arent a lot of other girls in the class and all the girls are freshmen) I expect HIM to tell ME if he likes me or not, because he's a junior, and if I say no to him (which I wouldnt), it shouldnt be a big blow to his ego. But he keeps on dropping hints that he likes me as something..more. That's where I'm getting confused. Luckily there's a winter formal coming up on the 9th that he can ask me to AND valentine's day 5 days later. Think I should ask him to the dance? (sorry, that turned out much longer than I planned it to).
Thanks for reading :3
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It sounds to me like he likes you! Whenever it comes to guys and giving signs, they always tend to make it confusing, don't they, haha? But whenever guys tend to tease a girl and if he's always complimenting you and having a big smile on his face ; it def. sounds to me like he's interested. Just think of this though first: is he a huge flirt? Does he flirt with alot of girls? Because if then, you might want to reconsider where you want to go with this guy. Guys like this could cheat, and you wouldn't want your boyfriend flirting with other girls, would you? Also, there's the fact that he could be just leading you on. But I'm just putting that out there ; this guy doesn't sound the type ; he sounds interested. :]
Anyways, I'm rambling now, haha. I would totally invite him to the dance! Just the next time you two are talking ( maybe privately would be better ; not when like a bunch of his friends are in the conversation too ), just be like,"Hey, you going to that winter formal dance?" And if he says yes, just be like,"Oh, you going with anybody?" And see what he says. If he says yes, then just be like,"Oh, well, save me a dance? :]" But if he says no, just casually be like,"Well, I was wondering..if you'd like to go with me. You're a really cool and fun guy and I think we'd have a great time." And smile. If he does turn you down ( which I doubt! ), just tell him it's no big sweat, cause it really isn't. Sure it sucks, but you can still have fun @ the dance with your friends, and it'd be his loss anyway at a great time.
Just don't get discouraged if he doesn't ask you to the dance ; HE might be nervous and worried that you're going to say no! Even though guys always seem to be the ones who ask the girls out, and are cool & calm about it, they're really just as nervous as we are.
Good luck & have fun at the dance!
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