Question Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 7:08 pm
k..
i juss started going out with this boy today.
it was very awkward. (wat can u expect on the 1st day though?)
we hardely talked
we didn't really walk together...
and we kinda avoided each other
i think he is waiting for me to kinda make the first move or w/e...cause he's shy.
any ideas of what i could say or do to make us open up more to each other...? or at least talk?
it's not cause we don't like each other...i juss thinks it's because we are both shy. so i am willing to make the first move...if i could just figure out what the best thing to do is.
i will rate all answers.
any advice is appreciated.
I'm sure you are more outgoing around your girl friends, right? See him as a good friend of yours and just talk to him and it will unleash this unstoppable chain of ranting. Haha [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
teenagex3romance answered Wednesday January 17 2007, 9:03 pm: aww sounds sweet. i kinda went through the same thing, i am also very bad with the beginning of relationships. Just talk to him and see whats up and if you act more comfortable he'll relax a little. As for the first move,do whatever you think is right and you feel most comfortable with. [ teenagex3romance's advice column | Ask teenagex3romance A Question ]
sweetxxdreams answered Wednesday January 17 2007, 8:14 pm: i know eaaxxaccttllyy what your going through.
well my advice is you should start tlaking and hanging out with eachother soon becasue sooner or later people will start saying " you 2 are horirlbe otgether blah blah blah.." dont let it get to u...they started saying it to me and i was like " um excuse me but the realtinship is bewtween ME and HIM, i dont need your opinion or your critisisim" but when
you walk( i know it may seem akward" but jsut go up to him and be like " heey whats goin on" and when you see him in the halls at school say hi. The reason he may not say it first is becasue he doesnt want to emberrass you in front of your friends. I know what yur going through and if you need more advice ask for my e mail. dont worry babe just be yourself and theres a reason why he fell in love with you in the first place, jsut pretendits like you guys were " just friends" like you were before so maybe it wont be as akward. xox <3 [ sweetxxdreams's advice column | Ask sweetxxdreams A Question ]
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