Question Posted Wednesday January 17 2007, 6:09 pm
hey, well im going out with this guy. we`ve only been going out for a month. but the thing is last year we went out for a long time. we realized that what we had was good and that we wanted to try to be an "us" again. the problem is last year when we went out we were so much closer. by the way im 13/f. anyways im now in the 8th grade and for all of our classes we just stay with our homerooms. last year we were in the same homeroom and this year were not. i sort of think that thats why, but im not sure. we talk on the phone every night. we also hangout outside of school. well today we got into a fight because he doesnt think that i show that i love him enough. sometimes he says that i even push him away a little bit. he says that i treat him badly and the only reason why he puts up with it is because he loves me and that if we were older he would ask me to marry him =O. he said that if he just liked me and that if i was another girl he would have broken up with me a long time ago because of the way i treat him. he wants me to change and show my love for him more. does anyone have any ideas on what i could do? i dont want to mess this relationship up because i think we have a good thing. he says that he wants to be with me for a long time and i want to be with him. the only thing stopping us from being togehter would be the way i act. we also both agreed that if we broke up we would sitll love each other. so once again any ideas on how to show more love?
okay so anyway; if apprenrlty you " dont show your love for him" maybe write little notes and leave it in his locker..make him corny little cards. decorate his locker.. when u see him instead of saying hi just bey like " HEY I LOVE YOU " and smile :D or when you walk just grab his hands..and aalllwwaayysss say hi to him when u see him!..hope i helped..if i need more advice; ask me and ill give you my e mail (: [ sweetxxdreams's advice column | Ask sweetxxdreams A Question ]
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