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mastrabation


Question Posted Friday September 5 2008, 7:49 am

13/m, Hi, ive had pubic hair for a couple years now, and ever since ive gettin it, ive been mastrabating, and ever since i got pubic hair, it seems like my maturing process has slowed down. I dont yet have under-arm or facial hair. Is it just that i mature slowly, or am i maturing more slowly, because i am not yet fully mature, and i am mastrabating. Please help

I asked this question, and you already answered it, however i lied about my age, because im embarrased of my slow maturing. I am actually 15 and a half. Im scared something is wrong, considering that i am 16 in 6 months, and i am not nearlly fully matured..is there a problem?


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Cux answered Friday September 5 2008, 6:58 pm:
Everyone grows and matures at different ages. I think I'm pretty close to the end of maturity in terms of growing and such, but I could be wrong. There's no way to know unless you're in your mid 20s. Usually by then you should have reached your peak height and such.

As for facial hair, honestly, be lucky you don't have to deal with it. It's such a hassle to have to shave every morning, and even more of a hassle to not shave it. I started to have to shave in my freshmen year, so about two years ago.

I think you're still pretty young in terms of growth. Most people start growing at 12 or 13, so you're only 2 or 3 years in, and you still have 4 or 5 years left. So you're not done, trust me.

Just relax. Things will happen in time.

--Jack
(16/m)

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Psycotheis answered Friday September 5 2008, 11:36 am:
Completely avoiding the comment of masturbation, its likely you won't grow facial hair for some time, not everyone does. I had mine at age 12, so its different for everyone. Under arm hair is likely to come first, if at all.

And it has nothing about not maturing or maturing slowly, its just your bodies process of growing extra hair hasn't come to notice yet. Being mature is more personality than physical body. When you've matured, you don't think girls are gross, their approachable and you become attracted to them. You become more adult like and care little for things that aren't to your interest anymore, your more or less curious about certain things.

Everyones body grows at different rates and puberty begins and ends at different times. Don't feel so wierd that you have grown hair in places and have in others, and don't expect that everything was to come at once. Everything takes time, so be patient and be comefortable about yourself. The only way anyone will know is if you tell or act like something is up.

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