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paranoid


Question Posted Saturday January 13 2007, 1:46 am

I did really badly for my first term of school and I told myself that I must work very hard and get all A's for term 2. Now that my second term has started, I can't seem to stop worrying because I'm really very very afraid of it being like in term 1. When I was in term 1, I stressed myself so much in order to get good grades that I cried everytime. It kind of gave me a phobia for school work.

I told myself to take it easy and just be consistent in term 2. It seem to work at first but after a while, I just fall back into the pit again. The pressure of not wanting this term to be like in term 1 is killing me. Because I really don't wanna stress myself to death like I did in term 1.

My heart kept beating so fast and I can't sleep at night. I just keep worrying and worrying. What if I can't get those classes that I want, what if I can't make any new friends, what if I don't have time to revise for my work, what if I can't do well for my term 2 tests and exams. I can tell people to relax but I can't seem to calm myself down. Someone please help me to stop worrying! Don't diagnose me. Help me!


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Tinkerbell94 answered Saturday January 13 2007, 6:38 pm:
Well i am a straight A student and i'm just going to tell to relax and go after class to the classes that you having trouble and ask your teacher, if you and her/him could schedule a time so they can tutor you in that material.
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angel411 answered Saturday January 13 2007, 6:30 pm:
well you said you did badly your first term, so look at it this way. no matter what, you can only go up. you can do this. your paranoia is what the REAL problem here, it's what is holding you back. if you are paranoid about having enough time, get a huge calendar or day planner and PLAN OUT YOUR TIME. be a neat freak! don't ever waste time. if you use it effectively, you will have more free time..and spend less time worrying. don't over work yourself, because when i do that-it's what causes me to cry and feel upset. work some time in that you can hang out with friends, because that will keep you a happy person. try talking to your teachers about this problem and they might sympathize and give you extra tips or worksheets to help you understand things!
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