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mature relationships?
what is your idea of a mature relationship? what are some things that you and your boyfriend/girlfriend could talk about that would be considered mature. I mean yes, i know the basics. But, i really want my boyfriend and my relationship to go a lot deeper. what are some conversations you'd talk about? i know me and my boyfriend aren't that matured as a couple but i want to find ways that could make us mature...mutually. oh, and we haven't had sex yet. It's been six months and i really want to be as open and honest with him. I tell him everything. I just want to make sure im ready for everything, i want us to face things together.
please no rude advice either. I know people do leave advice thats really immature but with all honesty, i am asking for a very good reason.
thanks.
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Okay, well don't get so into the relationship yet because most guys don't look for such deep ones but I can't speak for them.
Anyways, just take it up a step and figure out what his plans are after high school, what job he wants to persue, etc. Don't go rambling about marriage though. Haha.
You guys can also get into each other's views on political situation, religion, government, etc.
Go back to the past and ask what he thought of you before, what triggered him to like you/ask you out, talk about dates and stupid/fun/embarrassing moments you guys had together and just talk about the past times.
There is really no set of guidlines anyone can follow to have a mature relationship. It just takes it own course and time will help it develope into a stronger and deeper one.
But anyways, good luck and have fun =]
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i think its ok not to jump the gun on sleeping with him. belive me the are some that i wish i would have waited on. even though i have only been with 3 guys, two of them the relationships went to shit after we had sex. i think good conversations to have with each other would be about your extended life. like your intensions with each other, future living arrangments, future schooling, etc. me and my husband still talk about that stuff all the time. we still always talk about things we like and things we dont. i htink as long as you guys can talk about anything without getting into a fight over every little thing then you have no problem about it being mature. i know people who have been together for like ever and they fight over the dumbest things.
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