Okay, I'll cut right to the chase. I've had this best friend for like over a year and a half now and lately i just can't stop thinking about her. Like when I'm all alone I'll even go on her mypsace and just stare at her pictures for hours. I'm beginning to think I've developed more of just a close friendship with her. I don't know why though. Like when I'm around her I get butterflies and I a have urges to hold her hand. Is there a possibilitiy that I could be a lesbian? WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
from: "confusedd&abused"
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xocrazyyaboutyou answered Monday January 8 2007, 4:26 pm: well if you are lesbian there is nothing wrong with that. but i wouldnt suggest holding ur friends hand if your friend isnt lesbian or bisexual, she might freak out and not want to talk to you anymore. If you are attracted to your friend in a way that is more than just wanting a friendship you should #1 think about the fact that she might not feel the same way. #2 - she might not want to think about you having feelings for her that way. Some people dont want to hang around with people that make them feel uncomfortable. but if you two are truely friends then tell her how your feeling and hope for the best. If she stops talking to you for any of these reasons then she wasnt your true friend to begin with. but it is natural to want to experiment as a teenager. :] hope i helped oxxx Sam <33 [ xocrazyyaboutyou's advice column | Ask xocrazyyaboutyou A Question ]
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