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should i dump him?
ok well im going out with this guy and we have hung out twice so far. he wants to keep our relationship a secret from the girls in his public school (i go to private school). I got in a fight with some girls and he doesnt want rumors to be spread. im not sure if hes scared hes gunna be made fun of or what. im confused and im not sure if i should dump him.
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What reasons has he given you for keeping the relationship secret?
If it has any chance of being a solid, genuine relationship, the secrecy has to go. People keep secrets when they want to mess around, when they are embarassed, etc. None of these things should be present in a good relationship.
You could ask this guy why he wants things to be a secret, and what sort of rumours he thinks could be spread. Is he worried about your reputation, or his?
And if he knows this secret thing bothers you, is he willing to let people know you're together?
This is a situation where you should listen to your heart AND mind. Best of luck.
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