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kissing... ok i have had boyfriends before, but i have never kissed them. they asked me to, but i wouldn't because i didn't want them to think i was a bad kisser. this is kinda an akward question to ask, but how are you supposed to kiss? thanks!!!
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check this out, take it slow, I mean tilt your head opposite of his, as you move in, dont open your mouth, like so wide you could put a whopper in it,I mean, just a little, dont put your tongue so far in his mouth either, ya-know ...it just trail and error, you'll find your own groove, maybe nibble on his lip, to ...but what ever you do , go slow, you'll enjoy it alot more...trust me..slow is better and more seductive.. ]
I know this is going to sound useless, but honestly just go with the flow. Don't overthink it because then you will probably be nervous and awkward. For my first kiss, I let him kiss me and just went with the flow, and really that's what most people do. Have fun with it. =]
Good Luck.
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I got this off of a website.
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa.
3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that.
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing. ]
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