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when do i shave?
o.k im 14 and im starting to get a little intimate with my bf. i know that he wants to finger me, but i dont know if i should shave? is it weird if i dont shave? is it weird if i do shave? im not sure in which situation he would be for uncomfortable with and i cant ask him.
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Well, it's really about what you are comfortable with. Shaved, trimmed, not shaved - it's totally up to you. Any of them is okay and normal.
I guess you would want to consider the pros and cons of each method:
How much work/time/razor burn is involved?
What's easiest for you to upkeep?
What would make you physically most comfortable?
What would make you emotionally most comfortable?
In his lifetime, a guy will come across women with all sorts of pubic hair styles. It's really up to the woman, and if a guy is so upset about one style over another, he's probably not a guy worth keeping around. After all, the important stuff is being close with each other, not ranking your ability as a pubic hair stylist!
Chances are he will be much more interested in any activities you are doing than in judging you - or you would hope a guy you were getting intimate with would take that viewpoint. Perhaps once you feel more comfortable with him, you'll feel more able to ask him if he has a preference.
But like anything in a relationship, while you can consider his likes/dislikes, the end call is up to you. If you do things purely for the other person and not for yourself, you're not doing yourself any favours. I'm sure whichever you pick will be right for you...and remember, you can always change your mind. Hair grows back.
Best of luck.
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