okay, my friend said that you are a really really great advice giver so i wanted to ask you a question that almost ever 12-14 girl has.
ok i like this guy
we have been buds for like ever
he is like the stud of the school
but i knew him since he was a little stud when know one liked him
we hang and stuff not alot but we mostly talk on the phone. i dont go to his house stuff like that know because he always has his ex over there for some reason and because i don't really feel comfortable around his parents.
anyway yes i like hime alot
i want to tell him to
i have tried sometimes but i am just to shy to tell him because im afraid of what he'd think
ofcourse you're probably gonna say oh just tell him, it won't mess up your friend ship
well im not the only girl in the school who likes him
everyone does
sep. i am the only girl who has actually known him since 1st grade okay and now we are in 8th and everyone else knew him from 3-5th
and all my friends like him to but they just pretend they don't like oh my derek is such a loser an stuff (his name is derek) then the next day they are sitting there drooling at him and im like okay... and i thought i was the only girl that wasn't really tripping over him but now i am an i liked being his best friend only girl to talk to without thinking she is crushing over you majorly
i hope you can help me
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bitterxsweet answered Tuesday January 2 2007, 6:49 pm: you really should tell him. you obviously want to. if yall have been friends for awhile, then yall must be pretty close. so either just go ahead and say it, or if you want to be more subtle about it, just say "i heard someone say they thought we'd be cute as more than just friends" or the classic "what would you think about us being more than friends". that way you can get a reaction out of him without actually spilling your feelings for him. if he's into it, then go for it! the guy i go out with now, we got really close like best friends, and i knew he really liked me alot, so i sucked it up and ask him out [let me tell you that was nerve-wracking lol] but weve been going out for almost 6 months, so it turned out to be a great decision. the same could happen to you! if he's not into it, just lay low. maybe he's not interested in having a girlfriend right now, so just continue to be his best friend and give it some time and see what happens later. it is kind of odd that his ex is always at his house, but maybe they ended on good terms and are still close. if you dont want to be over there, invite him out somewhere. movies, bowling, amusement park, whatever, either just yall two or a group of people and have fun! hope it works out, good luck girl! [ bitterxsweet's advice column | Ask bitterxsweet A Question ]
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