hi im molli and i've read some of your answers and i think you'll be able to answer my question honestly. there's this REALLY pretty girl who goes to my school, she's seriously like perfect, her hair is ALWAYS straight, the boy i like likes her, she's smart [kind of], funny, and not afriad to be herself. she also has a ton of friends. i really want to BE her!! lol that sounds crazy but its true.i mean YEAH people tell me im pretty, im smart, funny, boys look at me but i dont feel "cool." i want to be close to perfect like her, like if someone just takes random pictures at a party or something, i would look great/cute in all of them
You don't have to be perfect, or even close to it. You can't make yourself look like or try to be someone else. You can only be you. Guys don't want girls because they have perfectly straight hair or a Hollywood smile. They want girls who are happy with themselves. The main reason why people like this girl you speak of is the reason you stated, "not afraid to be herself." I love this quote from RENT because it helped me love myself for who I am. If you really think about this one, you'll understand what it means, and then take it to heart.
"You'll never share real love until you love yourself.."
-Roger Davis in "RENT" (As played by Adam Pascal)
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