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My friends are fighting--- Over a stupid ring!!!
Hi! Um, my two best friends are fighting over a dumb ring my one friend, Sam, found on her kitchen table. And see, my other friend, Tami, and I went to Sam's house this past weekend. Tami had to leave early and had her stuff lying on Sam's kitchen table and so.... Well, at school yesterday, Sam said, "Hey, check out this ring I found on my kitchen table!" Then Tami and I looked at it and Tami started shouting at Sam, saying it was her's. They started yelling at each other and Sam got so mad, that she threw it at Tami. Then they didn't talk to each other the rest of the day, and when school let out I asked Sam if she was still mad at Tami about the stuped ring. She got mad at ME for asking and said that it was her ring. And the thing is, is that I saw the ring at Tami's house when I went over there. So, Sam's being childish and trying to trick me into thinking it's her's, even though she's knows I've seen it at Tami's house. And then just as we were leaving to go out to the buses, Tami goes up to Sam and says she's not Sam's friend anymore. So, that puts me in the middle of this whole mess. Please, please tell me you can help! It's much appreciated!
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Oh man that's though. I always hate when my friends argue. Just really try not to get into the middle of it or take sides. And if one of them asks your opinion just state your honest to God truth. Try to talk to Sam and just be like "I know that you think it's yours and everything but SERIOUSLY, I saw it there because when Tami had to leave early she left it there! If you don't believe me then I don't know what else to say because your being kind of childish." If that doesn't work it's just gonna really take time. You just have to wait, because usually when drama like that happens, people end up being friends again because it's really no big of a deal. Tell Sam that it's not big deal too! Just tell her you guys don't care that she misunderstood that it's her ring. Talk to Tami also. Maybe Sam really did mis-understand that it was Tami's ring and forgot and then made that statement. Tami made have judged her a little too rash, you know? Just talk to her, maybe ask her if she could apologize to Sam for yelling at her(:
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