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Harasment
Hello, I am a 15 year old female. I am constiantly getting called names because of my breast size, which are really big compared to the rest of my body. I am rather tall and rather skinny, but I have a 36C bra size. Many of my peers at school haras(sp?) me, mainly boys but sometimes girls. I do not know how to react to this because some of the times it really does bother me of the things they say and do. Any advice would be great. Thank you!
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People will always find something to make fun of others about, and it's usually a noticeable part of their body. In your case, it's your breasts.
You won't be able to control what they say, but you can control how you react. If people close to you are saying things that bother you, you might be able to say something like, 'When you say stuff about my breasts, I feel annoyed and hurt.'
If it's people you aren't close with, you might not feel comfortable confronting them. That's okay.
The thing about our bodies is that they are the only bodies we've got. The only real thing that can happen here is that you learn to become comfortable in your body - if you feel secure and confident, that will lessen how badly you feel when other people say cruel things.
The size of your breasts doesn't change who you are as a person. And while you may feel your breasts are huge at this point, remember that girls continue developing until around their 18th birthday - so those who are making fun of you now may catch up to you soon.
I wish you the best.
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