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im scared
i herd my bf kissed another girl so i went and kissed a guy i don't no and i found out the girl he kissed was...........ME.I don't no how to tell him and our relationship is going realy great what am i 2 do?
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well i'd be honest- tell him you acted impulsively and in the heat of the moment. tell him that you are sorry and see what he says.
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Dear scared,
If you really think it's a great realtionship, like you said, then tell him the truth. Tell him wy you did what you did and that it was a missunderstanding. If he truely thinks the realationship is going good too then he will accept you appoligy.
-Beanie
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Oh, gosh, that's really bad. Well, first of all, I'm going to act like an annoying, scolding Mommy and tell you how you shouldn't have overreacted over hearing stuff about your boyfriend kissing someone else. Because most of the time, gossip and rumors are untrue. They're just made-up words, usually exxagerated versions of what really happened. People actually do it for fun, isn't that sad??
Back to the main problem though: If your relationship is going really great, then it would still be as great if you admit that to him. Insult yourself and tell him that you really weren't thinking and you had no idea what you were doing to kiss another guy. Apologize until he's sick of hearing "sorry". =)
If he asks, "WHY did you believe that? Don't you trust me?" Tell him you do and apologize again. Tell him how much he means to you, and how your relationship is nessacary for you to be able to breathe. Tell him that you didn't want to admit because you were afraid of him hating you, but you really didn't want to keep it a secret because you think it's wrong. Tell him that if you really didn't care about him, you wouldn't be here with him, telling him all about it. If you didn't care, you'd be off with that other guy.
Most importantly, tell him you LOVE him. Like crazy. Hugs will prove it. Kisses too. =)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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